Teachers

I know my kids and most peoples kids are not perfect!! At the same time there are some teacher that shouldn't teach either.  I have had teachers in school who where awesome, they truly love what they do and you can tell that. I have had teachers as well treat what they do as a pay check. Teaching is a gift some have and others have. Just because you went to school to get your degree doesn't mean you should teach.

The point I am getting at is, I use to always respect all teachers even if they where a little grumpy or rude whatever have you. I have had horrible teacher in grade school looking back on it now. I remember a teacher pulling my wrist back because she didn't believe my arm went through a window and cut it open.. ewww my mom was mad. I have also gotten trouble on my own accord when I was little.. I can remember  plenty afternoons in the corner.

What takes the cake for me are teacher who lie to save there butts. My oldest daughter went on a field trip in the 3rd or 4th grade in to Turner Field. The class was crossing the street not in a cross walk, but in traffic the male teacher , who I use to work with pulled her across the street by her arm. I would have never know, but I noticed she was complaining her arm hurt that day. Both teachers lied and said there was no cross walks by the stadium, but luckily my uncle a cop at the time said there was and if he would have seen them cross they would been in a heep of trouble.. What made me so mad is the school she was at, at the time did nothing about it. But karma worked its magic a few years later.. the male teacher was fired and arrested for touching a female student inappropriately. I never wished anything like that to happen to him and never thought it would, but it did.

When my oldest was in the 8th grade She was already having issues with the 2 teachers in her class they where always yelling at the kids in the class, the class was over crowded, On day one of the teachers was being mean and laughing at her, she said you snort like a pig when you laugh.  Everyday after that the same teacher would call her a pig and snort. We record this teacher, but all this happened atthe end of the school year and she knew she would never have that teacher ever again.. I still wish I would have turned the tape in so they could have heard how she was, not only to my child  but  other kids in tat class I still have the tape, but that has been almost 3 years ago.

Now she is in high school she is having more issues with rude teachers who seem like they would rather be someplace then teaching/. She tells me she has issues with her math teacher, she says when she asked her for help she acts as if it is trouble or treats her like she is stupid.  I don't know if all that is true, but I do have trust issues with teachers, I have noticed that what the teacher says goes even if they are no being truthful, they automatically are believed even when the student is being honest. I hope this teacher isn't that way.




This is my opinion!

Trying to be trusting again!?!

Tomorrow I am going to a(friend) of mines house.  I am trying to trust more people and mostly her. She asked me to visit , she has some stuff for me.  It is hard for me to get out there and hang out with people. I am so afraid that I will be hurt again.. I use to be emotional and care what others said or thought about me.. Now sometimes I am bitter and really can care less about anything. I want to be in between.. I like the fact that I don't care about what other think about me, that can stay. I just need to regain  a little emotion.. I get emotional over things that aren't that important a movie or commercial.  When it comes to real life its not there anymore. 

I am trying to make new friends I need more people in my life.  I have always said I don't wanna die alone, but you know that is mostly up to me.  Oh and I would still like hanging out with my old friends, it just don't seem like we can get together and then we just seem to give up trying to.. So bad I know. 

Trusting men is a different question that is something I really have to work on.. I have learned a lot not being trusting toward men/ relationships .. I have learned to take things as slow as I need to get to know a person before going to another level.  Think that will help my trust issue. I am learning so I guess  I can give myself a break.

I am happy that I am getting out tomorrow night.. Maybe I will find something to do Saturday too.  I wish both kids had something to do, I would see if the parents would want to have an adult night out for dinner with out the kids. There is still Hope!

Maybe if I find my cam I will do a haul Blog about what friend gave me.. she's a extreme coupon- er and always has something something!!

All for now! Till Next  Time! Char

Teenage Hell!

I do have really good kids.  I see teenagers and I look at my 2 as if they are angels, ummm which there aren't.  My kids and mostly my oldest is more frustrating more than anything else. She will argue back in a heart beat and she is always right (in her opinion) and has to have the last word in,, that she don't win, I am like my mom in that situation I like the last word too and being the parent I should have it anyways. 
Tonight she wanted to know if it was OK if I would let her and her 13 year old sister to go to a meet-up/lock in at an off season haunted house 20 or more miles away and the old adult is barely an adult.  I told her I wasn't comfortable with that I don't feel comfortable with her and her sister in a practically abandon building with an adult who don't care what they are doing.  I told her no and she kept on and on she didn't want to except my answer and didn't understand my reasoning and wanted me to explain it to her liking.. Finally I say I said no I am not changing my answer and I don't want to her another word about it out of your mouth and she stomped off to her room.  While her little sister was a little disappointed but said oh well.

My youngest is starting to get a little bit mouthy, but never as bad as my oldest...She loud and angry she is a yell er she like to accuse before she knows the truth and she is very vocal stomps off and pouts like her dad.. I hope it don't get worse as she gets older. I sometimes wanna pull out all my hair.  My arguments with her are more with her wanting everything she just has to have it or she is gonna just die OMG

I wonder if I drove my mom as crazy as they do me sometimes.. I am sure I did. I can remember some situations I have gotten in trouble as a kid. I remember when I was 15 or so and my mom smacked me in the face and I hit back at her. That was not a good idea. I really didn't mean to hit back her I was guarding my face  and hit her as my hand went up bad news.  When I was younger I was on a diet and my step dad caught me eating Doritos's and I denied it.. He know what I was doing with bright orange on my face. I made the mistake and told him he can't touch me he isn't my dad he spanked me all the way home. I know  there is more. One day I will have to write a blog about some of the stupid things I have done in my life.. Its  all so funny! Until Next time! Char

Over Emotional People

I hate dealing with these types of people, you never know how to approach them without them saying"why are you being mean to me?" or "Why are you being so mean?" They try to make themself out to be the victim when they are the ones who are the cause of the problem in the 1st place. These are people who don't want to deal with the things they have done and make it all about you and not them. I am having to deal with that in my life right now and will have to for the nexy 5 or so years.

I can't say anything to this person without all sorts of drama and people getting upset. I now need to talk to this person about so stuff, but yet to try because I don't wanna deal with them.. even if I have something important to say to help them out and me but they will take it as something else. I try to send them a message or email so I don't have to talk to them , but it backfires they still call me grrrr. I can't win without losing.
What to do? what to do? I decision I don't want to make because it will be wrong either way.

Funny Please read this you will smile

Two women friends had gone out for a Girls Night Out, and had been decidedly over-enthusiastic on the cocktails. Incredibly drunk and walking home they suddenly realized they both needed to pee. They were very near a graveyard and one of them suggested they do their business behind a headstone or something. The first woman had nothing to wipe with so she took off her panties, used them and threw t...hem away. Her friend however was wearing an expensive underwear set and didn't want to ruin hers, but was lucky enough to salvage a large ribbon from a wreath that was on a grave and proceeded to wipe herself with it. After finishing, they made their way home.
The next day the first woman's husband phones the other husband and said, "These damn girls nights out have got to stop. My wife came home last night without her panties." "That's nothing," said the other. "Mine came back with a sympathy card stuck between the cheeks of her butt that said, 'From all of us at the Fire Station, Well never forget you