Teenage Hell!

I do have really good kids.  I see teenagers and I look at my 2 as if they are angels, ummm which there aren't.  My kids and mostly my oldest is more frustrating more than anything else. She will argue back in a heart beat and she is always right (in her opinion) and has to have the last word in,, that she don't win, I am like my mom in that situation I like the last word too and being the parent I should have it anyways. 
Tonight she wanted to know if it was OK if I would let her and her 13 year old sister to go to a meet-up/lock in at an off season haunted house 20 or more miles away and the old adult is barely an adult.  I told her I wasn't comfortable with that I don't feel comfortable with her and her sister in a practically abandon building with an adult who don't care what they are doing.  I told her no and she kept on and on she didn't want to except my answer and didn't understand my reasoning and wanted me to explain it to her liking.. Finally I say I said no I am not changing my answer and I don't want to her another word about it out of your mouth and she stomped off to her room.  While her little sister was a little disappointed but said oh well.

My youngest is starting to get a little bit mouthy, but never as bad as my oldest...She loud and angry she is a yell er she like to accuse before she knows the truth and she is very vocal stomps off and pouts like her dad.. I hope it don't get worse as she gets older. I sometimes wanna pull out all my hair.  My arguments with her are more with her wanting everything she just has to have it or she is gonna just die OMG

I wonder if I drove my mom as crazy as they do me sometimes.. I am sure I did. I can remember some situations I have gotten in trouble as a kid. I remember when I was 15 or so and my mom smacked me in the face and I hit back at her. That was not a good idea. I really didn't mean to hit back her I was guarding my face  and hit her as my hand went up bad news.  When I was younger I was on a diet and my step dad caught me eating Doritos's and I denied it.. He know what I was doing with bright orange on my face. I made the mistake and told him he can't touch me he isn't my dad he spanked me all the way home. I know  there is more. One day I will have to write a blog about some of the stupid things I have done in my life.. Its  all so funny! Until Next time! Char